At the
start of each new year, I like to write a mission statement for
myself in the front of my planner. Even though I don’t often read
it, it clearly outlines my priorities and some of my goals. It
defines my place and purpose before God, my role as a wife and a mom,
my responsibility as a daughter to my aging parents, my place in the
church and my duty as a homemaker.
I thrive
on routines, but have not attained them. Most days we have ten
people in our home, some who have their own schedules and my life
flows around the people in my life.
In my earlier years
of homemaking, I was influenced by the writings of home organizers
such as Emilie Barnes, Donna Otto and Marla Cilley (FlyLady) and I am
grateful for the things I learned from them. However, those women
had different lifestyles and their methods did not totally work for
me.
Our routines may
reflect our values, but they do not define our priorities. We have to
define our priorities and establish our routines based on that. It is
easy to become overwhelmed when establishing priorities and routines.
The discipline of a routine is good, and being consistent in one
routine paves the way for the establishing new routines, but if they
are too overwhelming, we tend to shy away from them.
My highest purpose is to bring glory to God, and in order to do that, I have to spend time in the Word and in prayer. Although I still need to grow in this, that routine is also a priority.
My highest purpose is to bring glory to God, and in order to do that, I have to spend time in the Word and in prayer. Although I still need to grow in this, that routine is also a priority.
Right now, a daily
shining of the bathroom and the kitchen sink is not my priority. I
put higher priority on reading a story to a little seven-year-old who
snuggles up beside me and lives a mixed up life between our house and
his mom's house.
Making the bed in
the morning gives me a sense of order and peace and is something my
husband appreciates. I love to walk for my health but
have gotten derailed because of cold weather. Cleaning my house gets
moved up on the list of priorities if it shows too much negligence
because God is a God of order and beauty, and I want our home to be a
haven of rest and refreshment.
My routines shift
through the various seasons of life. Probably some routines that get
a lick and a promise now, will receive more attention once my house
empties and my focus shifts. I often pray that God will give me
wisdom to know the most important thing to do in every moment.
-Timna Hooley - Georgia
I love the last sentence. Amen!
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