Saturday, June 19, 2010

Q&A - Mennonites

Debbie asked a question in the comments the other week that I thought I'd answer in a post. Maybe more of you readers have had similar questions.

"I have been reading your blog over a year now. Love it so much. I am just curious. I live in East Tennessee and the Mennonite community in this area have no electricity and use horse and buggy for transportation. What is the difference in the different ways of life for a Mennonite? I love your lifestyle and I think this whole Homestead lifestyle has been taken from how the Mennonites live their lives. If you would, sometime in your post would you explain this to those of us who are unfamiliar? I love learning about other lifestyles and people." - Debbie

First, thanks for sticking around so long, Debbie! I didn't know that I had any readers (besides my mom and my husband) that have been reading this blog for a whole year!

I hesitate to use the word "Mennonite" to describe myself. I would much rather be known as a Christian, a Christ-follower and a Child of God then by any particular church denomination name. I chose to include "Mennonite" in my profile description because I often am curious when reading other lady's blogs about their beliefs.

As Debbie alluded, there is a huge difference in various Mennonite churches. Some, like Debbie's neighbors, avoid modern technologies such as electricity and motor vehicles. At the other extreme are Mennonites who are indistinguishable in appearance from the world around them. Obviously, since I'm using a computer, I don't fit in the first group. I'll try to share briefly what we do believe and practice.

I am first of all a Christian and my desire and goal is to follow Christ and the New Testament Scriptures as closely as possible. In many ways, our beliefs, as Mennonites, are similar to other Protestant believers. We believe that the Bible is God's Word and without error (2 Timothy 3:16). We believe that God created a perfect world (Genesis 1:1), that sin entered the world through the choice of Adam and Eve (Romans 5:12), and since then all humans have sinned, including me (Romans 3:23). My sin separates me from God and results in death (Romans 6:23) but God through His love and mercy sent His Son, Jesus Christ to die for my sin (Romans 5:8).

I will highlight a few of the New Testament commands that affect some of the decisions we have made that may set us apart from other Christian churches. Please, in no way take this as judgment against any other Christians, but only an explanation of our choices. None of these things are an attempt to gain us salvation or pardon from our sin. Jesus' death completely fulfilled God's demands. My only goal is to be obedient to God and the Bible out of love for my Lord and Saviour.

Some of our specific beliefs and practices include the following:  I wear a covering on my head as a symbol of God's order of headship (1 Corinthians 11:5). Because of Jesus' command to love your enemies (Matthew 5:44), we do not join the armed forces or retaliate in other ways such as going to court. For the purpose of modesty and to not follow the world's idea of fashion (1 Timothy 2:9-10), I wear a cape style dress. While we do have electricity, cars, and computers, we avoid the world's entertainment (Romans 11:2) and do not have television or radio, watch movies, or follow professional sports.

When many people think of Mennonites, they conjure up a picture of a large family working together on a farm and selling baked goods at the end of the lane. Maybe I've contributed to that vision by writing about my chickens, garden, and bread baking. But, in a way, that view of Mennonites makes me sad. The Bible says Christians are to be known for their love for each other, not for their pie baking skills.

Maybe Mennonites have gained the reputation as "homesteaders" because often they have lived in rural areas. With the desire of raising a Godly family, many men wish to work with their families in home businesses. In areas such as Lancaster County, PA and Holmes County, OH the tourism industry has given many families the opportunity to support their family by raising produce and selling baked goods.

But while I believe the country life is a great lifestyle and a wonderful place to raise a family, I also know Godly Mennonite families who are raising their children in city settings. In our congregation, we have only two farmers. Many of the ladies in our church have a garden but some choose not to garden because of location, time or desire. Many of us sew since it is quite difficult to find modest dresses at the shopping mall. But knowing how to can, sew, or grow green beans are not commanded in Scripture and in no way required to be part of our congregation!


Just for a little personal history, I did not grow up in a Mennonite church. My family was part of a Brethren congregation that is in many ways similar to the Mennonites. When I married my husband, we made the decision to make his Mennonite church, our church home. At the time it seemed like a difficult move but almost eight years later, I do not regret the decision.

I hope I've answered some of your questions. I have no interest in starting a debate but please feel free to comment or email me if I have been unclear or if you have more questions. For more information on the web, visit Anabaptist.org

My desire is that each of us would grow more like the Lord Jesus Christ and that in this small corner of the web you will see the light of Christ.

24 comments:

  1. Thank you for sharing this with us Gina :) I now realize I didn't know very much about Mennonite beliefs and lifestyles. It was wonderful to learn about my fellow Christians.

    Have a blessed day :)

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  2. What a wonderful, humble but concise post. I so appreciate your kind spirit and your explanation of some questions I've had personally. Thank you.

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  3. great post! you did a wonderful job explaining your beliefs.
    Love your blog. keep up the good work!

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  4. Hmmm, I am neither your husband or your mother, and am still reading your blog, too, for more than a year. :-) Might have something to do with the fact that I knew you before we knew of blogs! ;-) Thanks for sharing!

    Blessings,
    Eunice

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  5. Great post and thanks for sharing. I just found your blog a couple weeks ago and love reading it.

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  6. That was a wonderful post and I hope it helps a lot of people. I have been covering and wearing very modest clothing for about 3 years now. Some of my friends still don't understand why I believe as I do. I think a lot of it comes from churches that ignore teaching about covering. In fact, I am the only one in my church that does cover!

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  7. I'm so blessed to have found your blog just this morning. I am also a headcovering Christian, and I dress modestly and plainly. I love so many things about the conservative Mennonite lifestyle, and am seeking, by God's grace, to follow these principles in my own life, even though it involves standing alone. God bless you.

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  8. Hello I appreciated your post.I have often wondered what exactly Mennonites believe.We are Baptist and we think of a womans long hair as her covering.:)I must say...I love the modest cape style dresses.Thank you again for the post.I have been following you for awhile and enjoying my visits.~Nikki

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  9. I too have been following your blog for nearly a year. Our daughter had been looking online for a recipe for Zucchini Bread to make for her family. Yours was such a hit that she told me about it last summer after she made it...so I made some too.

    I appreciated your clearly presented 'testimony' regarding what you believe. Thanks for posting the Scripture. I have a Mennonite heritage...I remember my Dad's Mother always had her Bible open on the dining room table and God's Word written on her heart.

    Thanks for sharing about life with your family! You are truly blessed, and so are we, when we read your blog.

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  10. Thank you for sharing this today! I think it is a beautiful thing to reach out to other believers in the family of God in a way that helps us understand one another. It only proves that though we may have differences, we are very much the same and have the same goals in this walk of faith. Thanks again for sharing - I enjoyed learning from you!

    XO,
    Pam

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  11. Gina, thank you so much, for your reply to my question. I worked for 30 years for the Department of Human Services and retired in 2008, due to health issues. I began reading your blog since I first retired. Through reading blogs like yours I feel as though I have grown closer to My Christ and his teachings. You are such an inspiration to all of us who follow you regularly. What a blessing you have been to me.
    Your sister in Christ.
    Debbie in East TN.

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  12. Wow! It was nice to read your testimony, and it actually had the word 'brethren' in it! ( That would probably only warm the hearts of people like me.)I get asked a lot of questions and sometimes don't even know where to begin with answers. You gave a good 'nutshell' explanation of your beliefs.

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  13. Thank you so much for sharing from your heart about your beliefs. I am also one to be curious about the differences in other ladies beliefs, but haven't been sure how to ask. I appreciate that your desire is to keep Christ as the center of your focus, and not just the baking, sewing and other details of our lives as women. If it is alright with you, I actually had some questions about modesty that I would like to ask sometime.
    Thanks!

    p.s. The new look of the blog is lovely. I just want to take a bite!

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  14. I love this post! We worshipped at the Mennonite church down the road from us for a few years until we felt led to move to a different faith. We still stop in once in a while because we do like the Mennonite faith. The neighborhood church is quite a bit more modern, and I think you would be surprised to see their style of worship. But they love the same Jesus, and that's what really matters.

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  15. Thanks so much, ladies, for your kind encouraging words. This post sat on the computer for several weeks before I finally had the courage to hit "send". I wasn't sure the reaction it would receive. I should have known that you all would be gracious!

    And Jeni, feel free to ask any question, either in the comments, or by email. (walkingbymyside@ gmail. com)

    Blessings, Gina

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  16. Hi Gina,
    I love the new look. I have been reading your blog for a long time. Thank you for sharing this with us. I have always felt a connection with the amish/mennonites. The way I dress and act I am often if I am plain.
    I look forward to many more wonderful post by you.
    Blessings,
    Elizabeth Quigley

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  17. What a blessing to such a sweet explanation of your beliefs and church family. Having a family of believers is so important.

    There are many folks out there who are "homesteading" to "save the earth" or "store food for the coming disaster". Though it is important to be good stewards of the things God has given us, saving the earth is not on my mind when planting or harvesting.

    We don't have little ones here now, but I do have a grandson who will be coming for a visit this summer from the big city. We are happy to have him come and experience the "farm" life.

    Truth is, we very much enjoy living this way. I thank the Lord every time the garden is planted and things grow and produce food. I am blessed when our little hen has chicks hiding under her wings and am reminded of our Father's protection.

    I know that farming isn't for everyone, but it is the life God has chosen for me and this wonderful man who loves farm life as much as I do.

    We also are members of a wonderful body of believers who we can fellowship with and serve the Lord by serving one another. I am able to teach Sunday School and use the gifts the Lord has given me.

    We are blessed.

    Your blog is a real joy to read and I have learned many things. I especially enjoyed the series on bread baking. We bake bread every week because my husband is not able to eat store bread due to food allergies. I have tried lots of the recipes you shared and talked about. It is nice to have someone to share with who has some of the same interests.

    Even though I work full time, have no children at home and probably am old enough to be your mom, it has been fun to share many of the same experiences with you. Some of my good friends are enjoying your blog now too. The community sure is growing.

    If I could wish it to be, I wish we all lived closer together. Well, someday we will :)

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  18. I think it is just a wonderful post! It is so refreshing to find other women who are seeking Christ and a Christ-like life with all their heart. Technology and all the "worldly" things online can be very discouraging and just plain nasty sometimes. You have chosen to use it to bless others. Thank you for that - I love your blog too!

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  19. Excellent post! I am also a NBM (Non-Mennonite background)My church before marriage also had brethren roots but as a church we were unrecognizable outwardly from the world around us.

    We bacame part of the conservative Mennonites almost ten years ago. I am so thankful we did and and grateful for the Godly influence for our children.

    What I love about this psot is your Christ-centered answer. It's so easy to just say, "These are our church standards..." When I first began my journey into things like the head covering, I often asked other women why they wore one and was almost never givena solid Biblical answer just cultural reasons.
    I too love to garden, eat seasonaly, bake and can etc... I think it is a much better way to raise children but your bring out a good point - These life skills are not the means by which we are saved.
    My blog is private just because we needed to protect an orphan that we cared for overseas but you are welcome o visit if you want too. We live in East Earl so not too far from you.
    Blessings in Jesus - Oh, I have been reading for a long time too but rarely comment.

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  20. Dear Family,

    God bless your family. so long as we have a such family with yours, the christian values can survive. our family are like "little churchs" in middle of the decaying society. Jocelin

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  21. Gina,
    This is a beautiful post. I am so happy you shared!! I am asked often about why we live like we do, and even with scripture I am never so graceful as you were in this post. :) Thanks so much for this. I hope to model your humble attitude and graceful answer in my future when asked about our beliefs. It is also strange for so many who have known us in past as we have no plain background whatsoever. These changes are very strange to many, but it is sisters such as yourself that have made my transitions to plain living much easier. Can't wait to read more! :)--S

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  22. I just found your blog when I googled how to make nursing pads! I live in Canada, and we stay at the Ronald McDonald house quite often with our 4 children. On weekends there are normally Mennonite families doing the "supervision" and they do all the "house" baking for the week, and it is AMAZING! Not to mention all home grown!
    I have often wondered about the Mennonite faith; being Catholic all my life I like visiting other churches, and see what the differences and similarities are between them and the Catholic faith. I thank you for sharing this post with us all.
    Megan

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  23. What a wonderful post! I found your website this evening while looking for a delicious zuchinni bread recipe, and found much, much more. Thank you for shining some light on your beliefs, as I an another Christian, but had no idea about the Mennonite way of life. I have to say, I truly appreciate the simplicity and dedication that you live by. I will continue to read your blog, and look forward to whats to come! Thank you and have a blessed evening!

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  24. Thank you for you heart felt testimony of your faith. To those of us that share faith in our savior and God, You bring us much needed strength and inspiration. You have uplifted my spirit when I was feeling down. You are a blessing, God bless you. Sharon

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